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With all the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi these days, it takes guts to say you are proud to be from the state. The population of Mississippi as a whole gets saddled with the misconceptions about its people and ideals. Nevertheless, there are young adults across the state who are passionate about their home state. I asked several friends of my native Mississippian friends to share their experiences with negative stereotypes of Mississippi, and why they believe the rumors are utterly false!

 

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. My favorite part of Mississippi is the beauty of it. I love the beauty of the small towns, quiet yet bustling with secret treasures and adventures. I love the beauty of the magnolia, the mockingbird, and the cotton fields. I love the beauty of warm smiles from everyone I meet. I love the beauty of growing up in a place that has been scarred by its past but continues to grow from those memories. My favorite part of Mississippi is the person it has raised me to be- strong, kind, thoughtful, and perhaps a little mysterious.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. I always knew that Mississippi had a bad reputation because of my cousins from Illinois. They called me "Rebel" and I shot back "Yankee." They didn't understand grits or fried okra, and they looked at me like I was nuts because I didn't argue when my mom told me to do something. I began to notice how movies all seemed to focus on the KKK or segregation or racism when the topic was the South; I noticed that the hero was always from the North, the villain from the South. It all kind of hit me in reality, though, when I met this girl in high school from Virginia. She was black, and all she ever talked about was how backwards, behind-the-times, and oppressive Mississippi was; it was like she looked for examples of racism, only to find them where they weren't and condemn this place I loved.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. The stereotypes about Mississippi are not true, but they were. Otherwise, they wouldn't be a stereotype. Yes, we burned crosses and had lynchings. Yes, we were poor farmers whose children worked fields instead of going to school. My own grandfather remembered taking the mule into town, and he introduced my grandmother to the concept of "Whites Only" when he brought her South. But how much more backwards and behind is the rest of the world that refuses to let go of 1964 to see what this state is today? The stereotypes aren't true because we have moved past them. As to the new stereotypes of being fat, lazy, poor, and stupid...If we are fat, it is because we know how to cook and know life is too short to be wasted alone in the gym rather than around a table with family. If we are lazy, it is because we know that there is more to life than a six-figure salary. If we are poor, it is because we give until it hurts to help those less fortunate than we are. And if we appear to be stupid it is simply because we are smart enough to know that a true genius doesn't boast. After all, Paul Harvey said, "Maybe Mississippi is right to downplay its opportunities, advantages and refinement. The ill-mannered rest of us, converging, would surely mess it up."

We Are Mississippi

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. My favorite thing about Mississippi is that it is by far the best place to grow up. From swimming in creeks in the backyard to climbing crepe myrtles, a kid can never be bored. Unlike in other states, the community aspect of Mississippi is incredibly strong. Even though people sometimes view the "everybody knows everybody" aspect as negative, at the end of the day, there's no place on earth like it.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. I became aware of negative stereotypes as I entered high school. From hearing people say, "I can't wait to get out of this state!" to posting negative comments about Mississippi on Facebook, it seemed like the negativity was everywhere.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. To be honest, I can say that I used to agree with these people. There are negatives about the state, but as I've gotten older, I've realized that the positives clearly outweigh those negatives. After all, most people who leave Mississippi come back!

 

Emma Reeves

Meridian, MS

University of Southern Mississippi

 

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. When I think of Mississippi, I think about fishing on the Leaf River first thing in the morning. I think about the people and how everyone knows your name. I think about spending my summers at a volunteer camp for the disabled in Wiggins, MS. I think about the unusual and different attitudes and sub-cultures that you see from one town to the next. My favorite part about Mississippi is the people, the history, and the culture. All of that speaks for itself but especially when you couple that with the beautiful places we have here in Mississippi.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. I've known my whole life that people around the world say that Mississippi is the poorest, the most racist, the fattest, etc. It wasn't until I entered college at Ole Miss that I began to realize just how prejudiced people are against my state. I didn't realize people's true conceptions.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. These people with their prejudices get it wrong in two ways: 1. They have this double standard going on. 2. They fail to understand the context and meaning behind the culture. As for the double standard, people only look at our past, and they try to apply our past to any problems that they see in our state. Discrimination and ignorance exist globally. Here in Mississippi, we are held to a higher standard than most. Also, people fail to see that we are not that much different from them, and we all share problems with discrimination. They only see the abuse and not the fact that Mississippi is #1 in charity per capita, or they fail to see how friendly we are and how humble we try to be. People misrepresent the culture by not seeing that for the discrimination that remains is waning. We are on the very residual wave that exists from the old times. Only the oldest generation remembers Jim Crow, and even if they still hold those same feelings, it's only passively, and they are never public about it.The good part of Mississippians is what is public and present in everyone, not the rotting racism from yesteryear.

Annie Bell

Columbus, MS

Mississippi School for Math and Science

 

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. My absolute favorite part of Mississippi is the summer! Some people only know how to complain about the famous Mississippi heat, but I love it! You just have to know how to handle yourself in the summer. A true Mississippian does. You get a good book, a cold glass of lemonade/sweet tea/something yummy and sit by the lake. It's the most relaxing feeling in the world.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. Probably around Junior High. I have always been pretty aware of these stereotypes.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. Actually, I think these stereotypes are true. However only for VERY FEW PEOPLE in the South. Do I walk barefoot sometimes? yes. However, only when it is appropriate. I wear shoes in public. Also, I go to the dentist twice a year and have never had a cavity. So it's safe to say all my teeth are intact. So I think these stereotypes exist because of movies, the news and other media. Let's face it that's the only way the South is portrayed. Barefoot and snaggletoothed.

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. Mississippi has a way of making you forget where you are. For decades it has moved at sloth’s pace, and while this is not necessarily a good thing, it is not necessarily a bad thing, either. It’s the kind of place where time goes on vacation - everything here is slow: the music, the weather, the enunciation of vowels. It is quite a feat to capture in words all that I love about this state - from its inner forests and flatlands to the hustle and bustle of its coastal life - as this love applies to a part of Mississippi that is in no way tangible. The dulcet tones of Southern life have accompanied me all the days of my youth; crickets playing and leaves rustling were my lullabies long before I knew how to form a sentence, and there is something here, something in the electricity of the air and the buzz of life that cannot be tempered by industrialization or large scale change. Peel back the social issues, and see Mississippi for its strengths, and you’ll find there is so very much to love. How can I put on paper the way the glower of a Southern sun warms my bones to the heart of me? How do I trap a summer breeze or the satisfaction of working in a backyard garden alongside grandparents who have been doing it for seventy years already? There is a connection here, between the generations, between the earth and its people, that is not easily broken; an ineffable bond that ties all those long gone to their children still breathing. I can’t say what I love most about Mississippi because it is not a thing to be put into words.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. In a way, I have always known them. We are raised from infancy with the idea that because we come from where we do, people will never expect us to be of any worth. We are racists; we are bigots; we are ill-bred, backwood, bible-thumping, cousin-marrying hill folk with a penchant for drawing out our words and burning crosses on every doorstep that seems a shade off.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. In a way, they are not unfounded; as with most of their kind, stereotypes are born from a grain of truth - stretched, yes, beyond reason, but not without an initial cause. The South in general and Mississippi in particular are home to a variety of people, each with their own social standing and set of grounded morals, but it was not always so. Looking back only a few decades, our state was one of shame, and even now, some of those old prejudices thrive. But one must always strive to not miss a forest for its leaves - we are not the actions of a few, nor are we the beliefs of a few. Admittedly, many misguided souls live in Mississippi, but the overwhelming majority are not as such. A man stands on a street corner and throws racial slurs out like candy, but forty more men stand to knock his feet from beneath him. I will not call our state void of faults - never - but I feel we cannot call it entirely faulty, either for there are dangerous and deluded men everywhere; we are remembered more for ours than most.

Q. What is your favorite place, activity, or person related to Mississippi or the best part about growing up and//or living in Mississippi?

A. My favorite part of Mississippi is growing up where I can see nature. I feel like people who are raised in concrete cities are disadvantaged because they don't get to see God's beautiful creations. Growing up in rural communities gives Mississippians a plethora of opportunities to see nature and natural beauty.

 

Q. When did you become aware of the negative stereotypes associated with Mississippi? 

A. I have always been vaguely aware of the stereotypes of Mississippi. My parents grew up during the time when students were bussed from school to school to promote integration. When I was younger, they would tell me about their experiences, so when I encountered the stereotypes, they were not really a surprise.

 

Q. Why do you think these stereotypes are incorrect?

A. The stereotypes about MS are incorrect because they only encompass one minute aspect of MS- not to mention they encompass only one small aspect of the state's PAST. People fail to realize that there are actually good things that come from Mississippi. Yes, MS has a dark past when it comes to discrimination, but it is the past.

 

Tanner West

Laurel, MS

University of Mississippi

 

Taylor Huddleston

Ridgeland, MS

University of Southern Mississippi

 

Rachel Byars

Oxford, MS

University of Mississippi

 

Meagan Baggett

Oak Grove, MS

University of Southern Mississippi

 

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